Well it definitely just depends on what type of guys you are interested in.
In the books, I don't like Damon at all (well, until the end of the last one). He is too arrogant, a complete ass, and he's far too pushy/bossy. So in the books, I'd definitely pick Stefan. Besides, Stefan seems a lot tougher in the books.
But in the movies, Stefan, though I do like him a lot, he seems kind of like a push over at time. Plus, Damon is hotter; I'll admit that. Hahaha
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